Recently, I've taken to studying at the library. Of all places! Thing is, I work at the town library, so I was hesitant to study here bc, well, bco a few reasons.
First, if I study here, patrons might recognize me and interrupt me bc they don't realize that I'm not working at the time (I certainly don't expect them to know that I'm studying, not working).
Second, if I study here, even though I'm not working, I find it difficult to ignore certain stuff. E.g., the after school hours are particularly busy bc kids come in to use the public pcs to do their homework. Unacceptable behavior, foul language and the like are not unusual. So I'd feel like I should do something about it, like I would if I were working. Plus, if sometimes I do something (bc I'm working) and sometimes I don't (bc I'm not working), to them it will seem inconsistent and send the dreaded mixed message.
Third, it's a very small library and it really doesn't have any quiet nooks. I've taken to camping out at Ruth's desk in the local history room in the basement. Hardly anyone comes here. It is quieter than upstairs, although people do use the public pc in the reference room next door. It's also an old building so I hear people tramping across the floor upstairs; in fact, someones running from the back to the front right now. It is more comfortable down here, though; at home, I don't have a very good desk setup: basically, it's a dining room table currently not used in the dining room and a folding chair.
The big problem is that I get very distracted at home, so it's good for me to study elsewhere. At home, I might think, 'Oh, I'll just do a little laundry while I'm reading'. Doesn't sound like much, but time taken away to 'just do this' or 'just do that' adds up. It also breaks my concentration and then I have to get back into it. There are other distractions, e.g., I should go see who's sneezing or yakking or fighting or whatever, the Mormoms are at the door, answering the phone, etc.
It's raining and yucky outside today, so I parked close by, at a two-hour meter. They check the meters until 5 PM. My time runs out at about 4:30 PM. I've already fed the meter once (I don't think you're supposed to do that) and I don't feel like going out and getting soaked again. I'm hoping the yucky weather deters the parking people from being very conscientious and that I don't get a parking ticket bc I didn't feel like getting wet. I have a parking thingie to park in certain spaces for free, but I think that might be only for when you're actually working. Of course, who would know/notice? Those spots are a little further away. Normally, I park a little further away to squeeze a walk (a very little exercise) into my day, but today I just didn't feel like dealing with the rain.
Speaking of Mormoms - why can I not spell that word correctly? - Mormons, I had the most interesting conversation with a patron last night. She and her family lived in Utah for about six years or so and learned a lot about the Church of LDS and some about the FLDS. A couple of young men would stop by the house for a while there, wanting to talk about their religion (LDS). I was interested in reading their stuff, but they balked at just handing it over without having a real sitdown about it. And I didn't want to do that. All I really know about Mormonism is whatever's available in the popular press and maybe a few things others have told me.
Anyway, this patron told me all kinds of incredible stuff! So much stuff that I'll probably screw it all up here, but here goes. E.g., there are levels to heaven and if you're really, really, really, really, really good in this life and reach the tippy top level when you die - and are a man, natch - you get your own planet to rule! Kewl.
Some folks were converting non-Mormons and then marrying them off posthumously. Yes, after people were dead. Conversion and evangelizing (sp?) are, obviously, encouraged. The thinking about the dead people is that those poor folks shouldn't be denied the glory of heaven bc they did not have the chance to become Mormons. So, if you have a deceased relative, you could still convert them. And then marry them off to some other dead person. Technically, you could do this with any deceased person, not only relatives, but it's considered better to bring one of your own into the fold. Not so kewl.
Apparently, this practice caused a big stink when some Mormons starting converting and marrying off deceased Jewish Holocaust victims. People who were not relations, people they didn't even know. This did not sit well with others, especially Jews, Holocaust survivors, freedom of religion types, etc. I don't know how a dead person consents to conversion or marriage. I guess a person's soul could accept or decline either, although if you're marrying off dead people bc you think you've got a couple of Mormons paired up, you don't really know that the bride or groom agreed to conversion. This site, apparently from people who know a thing or two about the LDS, talks a little bit about how the conversion is supposed to work.
Wrt the FLDS, I expressed a distinct lack of desire to (if I were a man) support numerous wives and children. Supposedly, that's not of practical concern bc usually the man and maybe one woman works and they rely on public support to make ends meet and support everyone. Other tidbits: non-approved materials are banned, e.g., most books, the internet, most tv shows, most radio stations, etc. Girls, as we've all heard wrt the Warren Jeffs business, are married off extremely young. The idea is to have as many babies as you possibly can. Babies are breast fed no more than three months, so the mother is more likely to get pregnant sooner. Jeffs pulled all the children out of the public school system. I believe they're all homeschooled now. I think homeschooling can be a great option, but I'm not confident that these kids are getting a good education. Then there's all the adolescent and young men who get kicked out. And the older, married men who get kicked out and their wives and children reassigned to other men. Yuck.
Both the LDS and FLDS sound very complicated. I could see how either might be attractive to someone who could benefit from some structure in their life. Or who craves community and a sense of belonging. Or who doesn't know what else to do or where else to turn. Or who needs non-spiritual help, they get it from these folks and then stay with them. You know, I have a hard enough time keeping track of five cats and one husband and their needs and desires; I wouldn't have the energy or interest to take on all the rigmarole, activities, commitments, obligations, etc. that come with belonging to either religion.
Enough about all that; back to Shaffer.
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